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Why Healing And Hypnotherapy Can Help With Divorce Stress

Why Healing And Hypnotherapy Can Help With Divorce Stress

 

What are the symptoms that can affect people who are going through a divorce?

 
Life itself is stressful enough without the added stress caused by marital breakdown. Common symptoms that I witness as a life coach and hypnotherapist often supporting people through their divorce stress, are worry and anxiety about the future (financially and emotionally) which often leads to erratic sleep patterns. When sleep is lacking it often leads to irritability, frustration, lack of energy and problems with concentration. This can then result in being susceptible to the symptoms of anxiety and low mood.
 

 
Poor sleep and bad eating and drinking habits can form a cycle that can be hard to break.

Anger, jealousy and bitterness towards the ex can and do exacerbate the situation – and these states of high emotional arousal fuel erratic behaviour possibly resulting in high blood pressure.

Unfortunately this toxic mix of negative emotions and lack of energy result in poor decision making and a loss of confidence and low self-esteem.

Apart from not being able to function properly at work or as a parent, the stressed divorcing person may suffer longer-term physical and mental health risks.

When experiencing a lack of sleep and high levels of emotional arousal the rational part of the brain is hijacked by the emotional part, which adversely affects our ability to make decisions, to solve problems and to think logically.

The emotional part of the brain tends to operate in black and white which can result in a highly anxious person resorting to fight or flight behaviour, or a depressed person resorting to suicide as the only option.
 

The University of California, Riverside conducted a study examining marital status and suicide and found that the risk of suicide among divorced men was over twice as likely as that of married men.

 
The longer term physical health risks are hypertension (high blood pressure), diabetes, heart disease and digestive disorders. It has also been said that emotional trauma can and often does result in cancer. Anxiety and depression are the most likely long-term mental health risks.

So what can people experiencing the stress of a nasty divorce do to mitigate these potential side-effects for their divorce?

And how can hypnotherapy change their mindset as well as their stress levels?

 

What you can do to help mitigate the

stress symptoms of divorce?

 

 
However difficult your life has become you need to prioritise your own physical and mental well-being. This means eating healthy nutritious foods and exercising regularly. In addition, you need to consider your emotional needs such as the need for security, attention, autonomy and control, meaning & purpose, emotional connection, competency, status and friendship etc.

If your emotional needs are not being met you are more likely to develop unhealthy coping strategies such as drinking excessive amounts of alcohol, smoking cigarettes, comfort eating and recreational drugs.

Hypnosis is sometimes described as a ‘trance state’ (as you become inwardly absorbed) which can be induced in many different ways. You could drift into a trance whilst reading a book or watching a film. It could also be induced by a professional hypnotherapist using his or her voice and hypnotic language to help you into a deeply relaxed state.

A depressed state could also be described as trance state but a negative trance state as the person becomes absorbed in how bad they feel.

A hypnotic trance induced by a qualified therapist can lift you out of a negative trance state and helps you to create a positive state of deep relaxation which activates the solution-focussed part of the brain.
 

The top 3 things that a divorcing person should do to keep them psychologically strong:

 

  • Get quality sleep without using sleeping pills if at all possible. Learning how to utilise self-hypnosis is a natural alternative.

 

  • Ensure, as far as practically possible, that your emotional needs are being met. A professional life coach or therapist can help to keep you focussed on this.

 

  • Do more and think less. Avoid paralysis by analysis. Maintain an active lifestyle for both physical and mental well-being.

 

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Free initial 30 min assessment

Call to book on 01273 509793

or email: info@thespencepractice.co.uk

 
 

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