How To Get your Life Back On Track After Divorce – Relationship & Dating Coach Karen Marshall
Are you training for a sprint or marathon?
When you are separating, going through a divorce or rebuilding your life again, you may be thinking, love will never happen again, or you really don’t want another relationship right now, because of the pain, heartache, and challenges you are working through. If you have children, their welfare will be something else on your mind. Let’s face it – splitting up is never going to be fun – and it may have you living one day at a time. And that’s all before you start getting into the protracted pain of legal proceedings and solicitors bills.
THE HEALING PROCESS
If you find yourself in your 40’s, 50’s or over, if you’re taking time out to heal your heart and get your head straight, finding love again could be far away from your thoughts. You could feel like you’re running a long marathon without any finish line in sight. Your vision ahead is only on the road right now.
When you are hurt and cut yourself, you need time to heal any wound. It is the same with your heart. As your wound or heart takes time to heal, learn to love yourself again, how you can improve your inner happiness, and the skills to bounce back so much more quickly if you are ready to change your experience of life.
If you value your self-worth and self-development, you’ve possibly had some counselling to support you emotionally, to help you feel happier and more confident, so it’s important to take the first step getting to know YOU again and what makes you tick.
With the right self-development support, you will transform your thinking and future choices.
If you want to be empowered to get YOU back on track, with an expert helping hand by your side, now is the perfect time to make the right life choices ahead if you’re ready to get out there and start socialising again.
As you rebuild your life independently being single once more, I cannot stress enough, you need to be guided in the right direction. You will otherwise get lost in the jungle of life or keep falling into the same negative holes on your road ahead. When you learn new skills now, you will quickly navigate around the holes, instead of falling again and again or staying stuck emotionally or mentally.
Sometimes in life we meet people we are not expecting, and it can happen when are you feeling lonely or vulnerable. If you only focusing on your children, you could possibly waste the next 1, 2 or 5 years of your life waiting to feel ready. If you don’t take different steps NOW you will continue to carry your negative experience of divorce around with you now and into your future that will impact every area of your life.
HAVE SOME FUN ALONG THE WAY BUT BE WARNED
Be warned! If you are looking for sexual chemistry to have fun right now, or choose to be single, that is okay. It’s all part of your journey. This is also a vulnerable time you could attract someone and get pulled into a relationship that is unhealthy, or not right for you.
If you do, the chances are you are likely to repeat the same relationship mistakes, or sabotage your dating experience or any new potential relationship (you might not even be aware of doing this).
START THE NEXT CHAPTER OF YOUR LIFE WITH A FRESH PAGE
Taking responsibility for your own happiness, is the foundation and secret to creating your happier and more fulfilling life. If you’re vulnerable, you might otherwise pin your hopes and dreams on someone else to make you happy, who will undoubtedly disappoint you because they will make mistakes. You will get hurt again.
You don’t even have to be thinking about dating or meeting someone new to benefit from the skills you will learn on the 2 Day Self-Transformation Coaching Programme. You will accelerate your healing journey, feel happier and more confident. You will discover valuable insight, knowledge and the right coaching skills to help you face and deal with your challenges from a new perspective.
If you don’t want to repeat the same mistakes, you need to start doing something now. Spend time getting to know YOU again. There are no visible signs of the wounds you carry inside, so give yourself time and seek help from the right expert who will guide you in the right direction to help you bounce back more quickly when another challenge arises.
Imagine, if you could invest 2 days of your life to get your life back on track so much faster. What would 2 days be worth to you if you transformed your approach? You will also help to positively educate your children with your new perspective and knowledge. You are also likely to approach your ex-partner differently.
THE LEARNING JOURNEY
To run a marathon, if you want to prepare properly, you will need to start training, think about your nutrition, start running and set some training goals before you start.
It’s the same approach you need to take in your life to run your race. It’s important to nourish your mind, to learn new strategies and techniques and start practicing your new skills. It will take time and training if you want a more rewarding and happier life. When you see the finish line, your life will change in an unimaginable way if you are ready to achieve the life and happiness you truly deserve.
You will also learn how to RECOGNISE someone RIGHT for you and how to BUILD and nurture a more REWARDING, happier, and loving relationship THAT does WORK before one arrives.
Do you prefer to sprint? Or will you train for your marathon, if you knew you could find greater happiness and a more rewarding life and relationship that does work? BE WARNED, sprints can end very quickly. They can happen in short bursts and fizzle out as quickly as they start. The same applies with men or women you are likely to start dating. They can fizzle out just as fast without the right training. You could continue running an endless marathon.
Dr Wayne Dyer the famous American philosopher said: “When you change the things you look at the things you look at change”. So, when you decide to change your perspective your life experience will change too.
What would it mean to you, if you knew the training you completed, supported you through your divorce, in your relationship with your ex-partner, and would help you to feel better about yourself and how to create a healthier and more rewarding life and relationship moving forward? Investing only 2 days of your life will positively accelerate your life now in the right direction…
Take the next step…..
Why not contact me, for a FREE 30 minute no obligation Introduction Call (via Skype or over the phone) to discover if the 2 Day Coaching Programme is right for you.