Alternative Divorce Events, Trainings & Articles For Dispute Resolution Professionals And Their Collaborators
EVENTS, WORKSHOPS & TRAININGS
Short workshops on Facebook in Leicester and Sussex – learn how to get referrals whilst you sleep!
It’s Family Mediation Week on 22 January and Child-Centred Divorce Month right now!
Enjoy a networking breakfast with a difference hosted by Charlie Reading of Efficient Portfolio, and watch our Directory Expert Karen Marshall speak at two upcoming events.
Want to know how to get referrals whilst you sleep? Do you live or work in the Leicestershire/Rutland or in the Sussex area - and want more clients? How to get referrals whilst you sleep and feel confident using Facebook to grow your business. ...read more
Choosing Court Over Mediation! Are You Insane? Despite the Government encouraging the public to access Mediation by making it obligatory to attend a MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) before going to court, tens of thousands of families are still...read more
UCKFIELD CURRY CLUB ORGANISED BY OLDFIELD SMITH & CO AND RIX & KAY SOLICITORS LLP On behalf of Oldfield Smith Chartered Surveyors and Rix & Kay Solicitors LLP we are pleased to invite you to the Uckfield Curry Club, to be held at The Rajdutt...read more
Come along and be inspired, empowered and motivated at this interactive 1-Day Seminar to Step into the New You 2018 on Friday 23rd February, at the Hilton Hotel, Wokingham, Berkshire. This seminar is for business women entrepreneurs and high achievers. Let me ENGAGE...read more
BEST YOU EXPO – 16th AND 17th FEBRUARY 2018, OLYMPIA LONDON Become empowered to think new thoughts to see your challenges differently for personal happiness, business and relationship success. I will be presenting on the Mindfulness stage at the Best You Exp on...read more
Press Release Local Divorce Expert Supports Child-Centered Divorce Month in January With Advice, Support and Resources For Parents Coping With Divorce Does Divorce Scar Children – Or Do Poor Parenting Choices Do the Damage? Forest Row, East Sussex: That’s the question...read more
Lawyers, financial and wellbeing experts have their say
How do women find their voice when a major life shift gives them a jolt? Some women continue with their life path reaching what they believe to be the 'normal' level of happiness without reaching fulfilment until that life shift happens out of the blue. Others,...read more
Are Limiting Beliefs Preventing You From Divorcing? There was an article written in the Telegraph about the financial implications of separating without legally doing so. It covered the legal situation that many people find themselves in by not proceeding with a...read more
“It doesn’t have to be like this, David” I said to my new, overwrought client who was desperately scanning through his emails for the details of the expensive, litigious, “big gun” London solicitor that his friend had recommended. “It’ll make this situation even...read more
Divorce and Separation can be far less stressful if you use 'alternatives' to going to court - such as Collaborative Law or just keeping things peaceful and out of the court room. James Belderbos is one of those family law solicitors who would much rather you sorted...read more
What are the key classic errors men often make and how to avoid them Sussex-based family mediator Julia Warnes offers some guidance for men when divorcing: “I would say the most common mistake is often not obtaining advice at the earliest opportunity and often...read more
Financial Planner Paula Ryan speaks to Divorce Strategist Suzy Miller about how valuable it is for a divorcing person to speak with a financial planner at an early stage of the process. "The common mistakes people make when it comes to divorcing and the...read more
Are you training for a sprint or marathon? PAINFUL BEGINNINGS When you are separating, going through a divorce or rebuilding your life again, you may be thinking, love will never happen again, or you really don’t want another relationship right now, because of...read more
Why you need a mortgage expert sooner than you think when you’re getting divorced – by Carl Mountain
“I’m going to my mother’s!” (and slamming the door) doesn’t let you off the hook if the marital home has a mortgage on it and you decide to get a divorce. If your name is on the mortgage, you are as liable as your spouse for the payments. So getting divorce...read more
In this Brooklands Radio Surrey interview with Theta Healer Debbie Talalay, Debbie explains how Theta Healing is a quick and powerful way to heal the mind of subconscious blocks - and also physical problems. She relates an incredible story about a...read more
3 Top Tips for Co-Parents After Separation - with Eileen Howey There are three Top Tips I would like to offer to parents who are separating or co-parenting. First of all, don’t put the children in the middle. It’s important that they are protected...read more
In his interview with Suzy Miller of the Alternative Divorce Guide, Charlie Reading, of Chartered Financial Planning firm Efficient Portfolio, talks about securing your financial future after divorce, and how to prepare for and deal with the financial impact of...read more
Fantastic news - and proof that sanity does eventually (begin to) prevail in the world of Divorce and Families: As a result of the Child First Campaign bringing the issue of survivors of domestic abuse being cross examined by their abusers in the family...read more
Suzy Miller of the Alternative Divorce Guide interviewed Nigel Rowland, a financial services expert about the effect divorce can have on your health – and how to protect yourself from the possible financial fallout during and after this difficult time....read more
There are so many ways to cope with the loss of a relationship, but some of them will just leave you feeling worse. In this interview with Transformation Coach and author of "The Single Mum's Survival Guide", Vivienne Smith shares a few examples or how...read more
Susan Cowe Miller reassures new dads that there is a simple way to deal with the inevitable stress of fatherhood using Emotional Freedom Technique (Tapping). This technique would be particularly useful for dads who don't live with their children,...read more
BLOG PICKS – AN ALTERNATIVE VIEW
Powerful divorce stories and “Should I hire a hit man for my Ex?”
Step 1: Accept that you might go a little crazy It’s OK, we’ve all gone a bit mad during one of the most stressful and emotionally gruelling experiences known to man - family breakup. The trick is, don’t let your insanity destroy your finances, your family...read more
Robert went through years of conflict in order to be able to see his children after a bitter divorce, and despite having to go to court on more than one occasion, mediation was what finally helped end those years of stress and misery. Robert, his wife and the children...read more
I wanted to share this moving account sent to me by a mother who 'broke the news' to the children at a family meal, of the possible impending divorce between her and their father. The names have been changed, of course, as the journey is still ongoing - but it fills...read more
I’m going to bust a divorce myth that makes a mockery of any sane divorce strategy. It’s the one called: “Oh no, my husband/wife won’t use mediation.” Now stay with me on this, because you’re smart, right? And you don’t want to be making a mistake believing in a myth...read more
One of the questions a divorcing person might sometimes ask is: "Should I hire a hit man for my Ex?" Well, there’s two ways to read that question. One is - give your ex a present of a hit man because perhaps you know someone they don’t like very much (hopefully not...read more
Here is a simple recipe for the Best Way To Divorce. Follow this and avoid many of the disasters that can befall those those who manage their own DIY or self-managed divorce. With a divorce recipe to hand, it's possible to save thousands on legal fees, and avoid...read more
The first step to having an automated robot lawyer to administer your divorce has begun - A pilot project has been run in a divorce court in Nottingham with ‘really positive’ results, according to initial assessments, with a completely online system for uncomplicated...read more
With Trump blasting out his rhetoric to the UN threatening to destroy North Korea and undermining, completely, existing peaceful agreements on reducing arms proliferation with Iran - deliberately crushing opportunities to mediate and find healthier solutions - the...read more
Is a peaceful divorce possible when there has been infidelity? Divorce Strategist and Public Speaker Suzy Miller I am a Divorce Strategist who helps to prepare people who are divorcing for a more peaceful journey through divorce. I have...read more
Nigel shares how difficult it can be to integrate families post-divorce. Sometimes the 'new wife' can be a powerful force for peace! Demi Moore & Bruce Willis who are masters of managing the ‘blended family’. Gwyneth Paltrow & Chris Martin also stayed...read more
Petra isn’t known for her philandering. A number of male swans attempted to make her acquaintance in the two years preceding December 2007 – but Petra rejected them all, for she was in love with a plastic swan-shaped pedal boat. The romantic escapades of the black...read more
Will divorce really harm my children? No-one wants their kids to be used as weapons in an adversarial divorce – yet so many families fall into that trap. Your children can grow up as happy as everyone else’s kids – despite the divorce. But let's be...read more
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If you need to talk to me direct, you can phone on 07525 059 634 but I would advise you to set a time via email first please. For divorce/separation related consultations I request a FULLY REFUNDABLE deposit of £250 – there is no obligation to purchase my Self-Managed Divorce System.