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Life coaching can have quick results – even if you’re divorcing

Life coaching can have quick results – even if you’re divorcing

Anne, a Theatre Company Trustee and Board Director in Winchester, describes how quick and effective life coaching can be to move you forwards through difficult life changes. Sue Terry worked with Anne to bring about fast changes in her life.  In this short interview, Sue explains how she works with her clients: “I always work at the client’s own pace; making sure that my work is bespoke to them and their needs. If the client has a very specific issue they want to address, I will sort out...

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Baby Steps – coaching through difficult situations

Baby Steps – coaching through difficult situations

An interview with Sue Terry of Metroline Coaching, with a lovely story – also in the video – about how step by step, she helped a woman overcome her fear of having to be at the same important family event as her Ex husband. “Sitting across the table from me, K smiled as she said, ‘I feel we’ve taken the first steps towards a better relationship at last.’ I knew that six months ago she’d never have believed that she and her ex-husband could even be in the same room, and here...

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New mortgage rules making it harder to get a mortgage?

New mortgage rules making it harder to get a mortgage?

New mortgage rules have come into force – will it make it harder for you to get a mortgage? At Willow Private Finance we think the answer is NO!   When starting over from divorce, buying a new home is often part of that process, but will these new rules make it harder?   As of the 26th April 2014 new rules regarding affording your mortgage have come into effect. This means that we will have to prove to lenders that you can afford your mortgage now and if interest rates were to...

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Download of Booklet One: from the Alternative Divorce Guide

  Click to download Booklet One of Divorce in a Box EveryJourneyNeedsAGoodMap   Access your free 15 minute phone or skype call with Suzy Miller, your guide on this new journey, from this page: (just click the link) Complimentary guidance from Suzy Miller             To buy a real Box (ribbon is optional) CLICK HERE...

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Divorce Coach Rhiannon Ford Surrey SOS

  Rhiannon Ford Divorce Coaching: practical & emotional support through divorce and separation. Rhianon Ford Divorce Coaching provides step by step support for people going through divorce or separation.  A qualified solicitor, Rhiannon has valuable insight into the legal process, providing her with a clear understanding of the emotional difficulties facing her clients.  She can also help on a practical level, translating legal jargon, completing legal forms and giving guidance to...

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Francine Kaye: Divorce with Dignity

Do You Want To Avoid A Destructive Divorce But Don’t Know How To Begin? Do You Want to Avoid Spending Thousands of Your Hard Earned Income on Legal Battles? Do You Want to Keep Your Kids Physically Well and Emotionally Healthy During Your Divorce? Do You Sincerely Want to Divorce with Dignity? If you answered ‘Yes’ to any of the above then Francine Kaye’s new programme ‘Divorce With Dignity’ is for you. Ask anyone who has experienced an acrimonious and destructive divorce (who never thought...

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Divorce Agony Aunt Francine Kaye – June 2011

Q :  Our Mediation process just keeps breaking down. We are both so keen to do this without laywers but just keep getting into the same arguments – please help! A: Well, this does not surprise me ‘Angela’.  Both of you are hurt and upset and you are bringing the  same upsets to the mediation as you had in your relationship.  Unless you can control your emotional temperature, you’ll repeat the same patterns whilst hoping for a different outcome. The chances are you will...

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Litigant In Person or Self-Repping

In my case I self-repped AND used counsel, bringing in the “gun-for-hire” when points of Law needed to be argued, and then standing on my own when it was appropriate, so I’ve seen both sides of the coin. Likewise I’ve faced counsel, and later, a self-repping ex-partner. I did this for the following reasons. Firstly, process. It’s extremely complicated at times and counsel know the process, which is why I used them when I needed to. Secondly, cost. Court is...

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Why Austin became a divorce mediator

  Family Mediation: A fair and shared outcome for you, your former partner / spouse and the children. Austin Chessell of Hanover Solicitors in Knightsbridge, London is a Family Solicitor and Family Mediator. After qualifying as a Family solicitor I soon realised that going to court is not always the best way to resolve a financial or children dispute and undertook a course in Family Mediation. I have also for the past 5 years been a contact centre volunteer and have a lot of experience of...

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Scott Collier Photography

Scott takes photos of blended families, individuals looking to see themselves as the beautiful people they are (but may not feel it!), and also corporate work.    ...

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Collaborative Family Law Group host Guildford SOS divorce road show

Host’s: spokesman and Chartered Financial Planner Ian Taylor is a member of the Collaborative Family Law Group based on the Surrey Hampshire border, which plans to work with the Starting Over Show to create a unique local resource for people living or working in Surrey & Hampshire – legal & financial surgeries, relationship & parenting guidance, holistic healing and even start up business opportunities. Find out about our next events by clicking here….. SOS Surrey...

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the slow death

I understand now how fighting and bitter fury can provide such a warm cloak a haven from the tepid drawn out agony of the slow death The silent sickening wave through the diaphragm that sticks in the throat and lingers pathetically deep down into the stomach refusing to budge Memory flashes the knowledge that this present bereavement of another love lost without rhyme or reason is the aftershock of that other heart ripped to shreds years before An echo that refuses to quite extinguish....

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Holiday Inn Guildford: venue for surrey/hants sos road show

Holiday Inn Guildford GU2 7XZ   How to Find Us Driving Directions Print Directions FROM M25: TAKE JCT 10 & FOLLOW A3 TO GUILDFORD & EXIT AT EXIT SIGN FOR RESRCH PK & ONSLOW VLG. AT 1ST RNDABT TAKE 3RD EXIT. AT 2ND RNDABT TAKE 2ND EXIT. FROM SOUTH: A3 TO GUILDFORD & EXIT SIGNPOSTED London Heathrow( LHR) Distance: 25.0 MI/40.23 KM SOUTH WEST to Hotel On M25 take exit for A3 Guildford, on the A3 follow signs and take exit for Cathedral/ University. Take 3rd left on first...

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financial, legal powwows & divorce mediation advice

This event is now over but email suzy@startingovershow.co.uk if you would like to be informed when the next events are planned.   FINANCIAL Financial advice from Ian Taylor of Davenport Financial and Paul Cobley of Church’s Financial Planning.  More information here….. LEGAL – FAMILY LAW Free legal collaborative family law powwow : Gordon Dadds: Collaborative lawyer Naim Qureshi   MEDIATION Free Mediation powwow with RHW Solicitors: Mediator Samantha Jago DIVORCE...

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useful links

(Click here for full event information) SOS Village resource website – share your story Supporting Children through divorce: NSPCC resource list One Space single parent support  

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Visitors Pack

Who do I speak to first? Download a guide to who can help you at each stage of starting over at SOS: Starting Over from divorce or redundancy? Who do I talk to first? Sept 2011 Our talk: Speaker: Paul Cobley – Church’s Financial Planning Financial Planning on Divorce Paul will provide a brief introduction to Financial Planning, how it differs from Financial Advice and how it can often provide a solution to the needs of people going though divorce. It is often the emotional needs that need...

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Eagle Radio

Statement from Paul Marcus the MD of Eagle Radio:- `As Surrey and Hampshire`s local radio station, Eagle Radio is supportive of any new initiatives that make a real difference to our listeners. We support the starting over show as it is run with integrity, style and is genuinely relevant to people finding themselves in this situation’...

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who do I talk to first?

Breaking up or divorcing?  Who you need to talk to in order to move your life forwards…. dowload pdf version here: I’m breaking up – who do I talk to first 17 March...

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Interactive Zone

A brand new idea for SOS Brighton! An area of the main exhibition hall where you can watch an example of a ‘letting go’ ceremony (and even join in if you want?), feng shui your workspace, create your own vision board and take part in a letting go and starting over process involving a giant balloon! 11.20  &  14.30 Secret of starting over successfully Following on from their short workshop in the SPICE London Zone at SOS Brighton, Rhythm of Life interfaith ministers (as seen on...

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TV relationship coach Francine Kaye returns to SOS Brighton

Information and Inspiration for Starting Over Inspiration   TV’s Relationship Coach, Francine Kaye is set to deliver one of the most popular talks at The Dateline Platinum-sponsored Starting Over Show in Brighton. ‘Ex-Communication’ is designed specifically to let people know “How to speak so your ex will listen, and listen so your ex will speak.” Francine features regularly on GMTV, The Wright Stuff and on national radio as well as making the front page for Woman and Home, Red and...

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Introducing the Heart Zone

Information for divorce and breakup – Inspiration for Starting Over Inspiration Welcome to the Heart Zone at SOS – free 10 minute sessions of yoga, meditation, Dadshouse cooking recipes and feng shui throughout the day:  Click here to see more….. Letting Go and Starting Over: join us for an amazing shared experience at the end of both events (5.30pm) Are you ready to meet someone looking for a serious relationship, but have fun searching?  Then come to the party! Why not join us at...

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"Mediation" – what does that mean?

Are you separating from your partner? Are you having problems agreeing who pays for what? Are there children involved? Are you worried about mounting solicitors’ fees? Are you unable to talk to your partner without getting into an argument? Have you considered professional mediation? What is mediation? Mediation is a process entered into voluntarily by two parties in dispute where a neutral third party will help them to find a solution to their issues in a confidential environment. It aims to...

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Compulsory marriage vouchers

If the State want to cut down the divorce rate, let them provide ‘marriage vouchers’ that must be cashed in before a couple can be legally married. I think the Government should give ‘marriage vouchers’ to all married couples prior to their wedding, the same as they give vouchers for national health glasses and early years’ schooling. These vouchers should contribute to the cost of: 1/ A relationship coaching session – ideally one that teaches communication...

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Tickets are arriving now!

Other great resources for starting overInformation for divorce and breakup – Inspiration for Starting Over Inspiration What about the kids? Children are often left in the dark with the complexity of break up.  But I am searching out information that is aimed directly at the kids.  You’ll find it on this page: My parents are divorcing – whose listening to me? Please sign our petition online here: Break up right – please don’t fight! Are you ready to meet someone...

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Free surgeries and low cost fun taster sessions at SOS

Information for divorce and breakup Inspiration for Starting Over Please sign our petition online here: Break up right – please don’t fight! Free legal, financial & well being surgeries Low cost workshops The First EVER London Starting over Show Coming soon on 7 March Hilton London Metropole Tickets are now available (if you haven’t already ordered yours) at £3 each if you buy online.  Just click the ‘buy now’ button above. Hear our radio ad for the London...

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Kettering woman's miracle makeover

A 38-year-old Northamptonshire mum of three has won an exclusive competition that has helped to change her life. Michelle, who lives in Kettering, Northamptonshire, applied for an ‘SOS Divorce Makeover‘ after hearing about the competition on a social networking website for people going through divorce. Since winning the competition, the brainchild of Starting Over Show creator Suzy Miller, Michelle has had access to thousands of pounds worth of free legal and personal advice to...

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Why I’m putting on the Starting Over Shows

Suzy Miller (center) with ex partner and his wife (2009) My partner ended our 10 year relationship in 2003.  Our three children were aged 6, 4 and 1 at the time, and it was the most painful and traumatic  experience of my life.  However, as the years passed, I soon became grateful that my ex had the courage to end a relationship that was not truly feeding either of us and we now have a healthy respect for each other. It was tough getting to where I am now, and on the way I learned that...

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Liz investigates collaborative law and mediation

Liz is taking part in the “SOS Brighton Divorce Makeover”. This means she will benefit from some free advice and inspiration from a selection of our SOS exhibitors who have generously donated their time to show what options and choices are available to someone going through divorce or relationship breakup. 3 December 2009 I had the pleasure of spending some time with Liz and both being mothers of 3 and both proactive, positive people by nature, I really enjoyed getting to know Liz...

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single mum vs entrepreneur

Funnily enough – although I run an online directory of vetted professionals (www.certainshops.com), am creating the first UK resource site to signpost people through life changing experiences (about to be launched) and created the first UK divorce fairs – I have never written about the experience of combining single motherhood with business. And I’ve written about a lot, as you will see from many blog entries within www.startingovershow.co.uk. My experience of being a single...

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SOS Resource Partner logos

Logo linked to the SOS site for Resource Partners to put on their websites <a href=”http://www.startingovershow.co.uk”><img title=”PARTNER_SOS_LOGO-LARGE” src=”http://www.startingovershow.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/PARTNER_SOS_LOGO-LARGE-300×250.jpg” alt=”PARTNER_SOS_LOGO-LARGE” width=”504″ height=”420″ /></a> For further resources see...

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