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How To Get your Life Back On Track After Divorce – Relationship & Dating Coach Karen Marshall

How To Get your Life Back On Track After Divorce – Relationship & Dating Coach Karen Marshall

Are you training for a sprint or marathon?   PAINFUL BEGINNINGS When you are separating, going through a divorce or rebuilding your life again, you may be thinking, love will never happen again, or you really don’t want another relationship right now, because of the pain, heartache and challenges you are working through.  If you have children, their welfare will be something else on your mind.  Let’s face it – splitting up is never going to be fun – and it may have you living one...

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Relationship & Dating Transformation Coach Karen Marshall

Relationship & Dating Transformation Coach Karen Marshall

Save years making the same mistakes and positively accelerate your happiness and how you feel about yourself right now   Karen Marshall   Professionally qualified in the MIND-BODY-ENERGY & Relationship connection ITEC Dip, 3-year IEH DIP, A&P, Life Coach with London Coaching Academy Professionally trained with the Speakers Academy FREE 30 minute no obligation Introduction Call Email Me To Arrange Your Free Consultation    Karen@LoveCoachingYou.com   07590...

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How Do I Fill In The Form E When Divorcing?

How Do I Fill In The Form E When Divorcing?

Often referred to as “the dreaded form e” – there’s no need to panic.  Actually, it is not legally required that you fill it in, but if you have any assets at all to split, you will find most solicitors unhappy to assist you if you can’t list clearly what they are, along with what you need to support yourself and your family.  S0 it’s an exercise worth doing. You may also want to use a maintenance calculator to work out what income you may be due from your...

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Stephen Rimmer LLP Divorce Mediation

Stephen Rimmer LLP Divorce Mediation

  Divorce Mediators Laura and Wendy   Keeping your divorce away from the courtroom       Call us or email to book a no-obligation phone conversation on our mediation advice line: 01323 434 415 Or come in and visit us in Eastbourne!   Wendy: ws@stephenrimmer.com Laura: lsh@stephenrimmer.com 01323 644222   As divorce mediators we help reduce family conflict during the divorce process, so that you don’t waste money going to court     Wendy Still:...

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Divorce Mediation Surrey: Samantha Jago RHW Solicitors

Divorce Mediation Surrey: Samantha Jago RHW Solicitors

  Samantha is an accredited family law specialist with both the Law Society and Resolution. She is also a qualified family law mediator at RHW Solicitors Guildford, Surrey. rhw Solicitors Guilford divorce solicitors help you to have a clean break divorce and negotiate your spousal maintenance, with the guidance of family mediator Samantha Jago reducing the cost of divorce.       As well as being a member of Resolution, Samantha also regularly advises for the Surrey Law...

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Ways To Survive The Summer Holidays When You Are A Separated Family – Part Two

Ways To Survive The Summer Holidays When You Are A Separated Family – Part Two

  The first few months and years after separation require adjustments, but when couples move on, parents enter into new relationships.  This can mean that whereas one couple were involved before with the co-parenting, now step-parents and more become involved. Blended families bring their own challenges – and not forgetting the important role of grandparents, who may also need to be included.   Possible solutions:   Plan as early as possible. Work out a Parenting Plan as...

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Integrating Families Can Be Tough

Integrating Families Can Be Tough

Nigel shares how difficult it can be to integrate families post-divorce.  Sometimes the ‘new wife’ can be a powerful force for peace! Demi Moore & Bruce Willis who are masters of managing the ‘blended family’.   Gwyneth Paltrow & Chris Martin also stayed friends through their “conscious uncoupling.”  Or you may have heard of Ben Affleck’s divorce where the couple agreed to have separate homes on the same property so their three children can be near both parents.  How would...

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Ways To Survive The Summer Holidays When You Are A Separated Family – Part One

Ways To Survive The Summer Holidays When You Are A Separated Family – Part One

  BBC Radio Leicester Interview with Collaborative Practitioner and Family Lawyer James Belderbos     Summer – and the school summer holidays in particular – can bring stress to many families. We are familiar with the pressures that Christmas can bring with families thrown together over the festive period, but the summer holidays can also create stress and opportunities for conflict. Sadly, like Christmas, the aftermath of a family holiday can be too much to bear for...

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Divorce and Family Mediation HP postal area

Divorce and Family Mediation HP postal area

Want to know how to find a good Divorce Mediator in the HP postal area?   One of the best ways to have a ‘quick divorce‘ and to save money if you live in Hertfordshire or Buckinghamshire,  is to use family mediation. I’m Suzy Miller, the UK’s Alternative Divorce Guide, and I will find you family mediators to provide a quote for the cost of divorcing in the HP postal area – AND share with you my free ‘How To Save £65,000 On Your Divorce And Keep The...

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Divorce and Family Mediation TN postal area

Divorce and Family Mediation TN postal area

Want to know how to find a good Divorce Mediator in the TN postal area?   One of the best ways to have a ‘quick divorce‘ and to save money if you live in East Sussex, Surrey or Kent, is to use family mediation.   I’m Suzy Miller, the UK’s Alternative Divorce Guide, and I will find you family mediators to provide a quote for the cost of divorcing in the TN postal area – AND share with you my free ‘How To Save £65,000 On Your Divorce And Keep The...

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Why Healing And Hypnotherapy Can Help With Divorce Stress

Why Healing And Hypnotherapy Can Help With Divorce Stress

  What are the symptoms that can affect people who are going through a divorce?   Life itself is stressful enough without the added stress caused by marital breakdown. Common symptoms that I witness as a life coach and hypnotherapist often supporting people through their divorce stress, are worry and anxiety about the future (financially and emotionally) which often leads to erratic sleep patterns. When sleep is lacking it often leads to irritability, frustration, lack of energy and...

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Why a Divorcee needs to spend time with a Divorce Financial Planner

Why a Divorcee needs to spend time with a Divorce Financial Planner

  As a Chartered Financial Planner, I often help women who are dealing with divorce, and in this particular case, I helped a woman who wanted to complete a divorce in an amicable fashion – but was also worried about her retirement in years to come. Would she have enough money to live off and maintain her quality of life? And how would working with me be useful to her?  What exactly is the role of a divorce Financial Planner? At first, the lady concerned (let’s call her “Andrea”)...

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Why you need a mortgage expert sooner than you think when you’re getting divorced – by Carl Mountain

Why you need a mortgage expert sooner than you think when you’re getting divorced – by Carl Mountain

  “I’m going to my mother’s!” (and slamming the door) doesn’t let you off the hook if the marital home has a mortgage on it and you decide to get a divorce. If your name is on the mortgage, you are as liable as your spouse for the payments. So getting divorce financial advice early on is a good idea. What’s yours is his and what’s his, is yours – including debts and mortgages. And if the payments are not made, your credit history will be damaged.   So getting to a place of...

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Divorce With Lawyers Who Talk To Each Other: The Collaborative Divorce Process

Divorce With Lawyers Who Talk To Each Other: The Collaborative Divorce Process

  According to the Mirror, lawyers estimate that the average cost of a UK divorce is – in real terms – £70,243 and rising – with the average person losing out on £4,686 of their salary, with an added £5,089 on finding alternative accommodation, £8,926 in legal fees and £51,543 in paying off debt and sharing assets.   Of course, if the divorce starts to get ‘out of hand’ – then legal fees can begin to soar. I spoke recently with a mother who has had to borrow...

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Divorce Financial Advice with Paula Ryan Horsham Sussex

Divorce Financial Advice with Paula Ryan Horsham Sussex

  The Right Divorce Financial Advice At The Right Time   I’m a good listener and make people feel comfortable talking to me and open up to me. With all the experience I have and the study I have carried out means that, once I know what someone is looking for, I can provide them with the correct financial solution to help meet their goals.     I’m often helping them through difficult times in their lives, providing them with the support they need so that they have peace of mind...

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Dispute Resolution Survey Results

Dispute Resolution Survey Results

    I put some key questions to a group of international Dispute Resolution practitioners a few months ago – with the majority of respondents being from the UK – and here are the interim results. The size of the survey is not ‘statistically relevant’ (ie. not yet 100 participants) but it does give some thought provoking data and comments (all confidential regarding who has made them!) The participants were nearly 80% Mediators, 68% Collaboratively trained, just over 16%...

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Collaborative Lawyers and High Profile Divorce

Collaborative Lawyers and High Profile Divorce

  I hear a lot of about collaborative lawyers and the good work they do helping couples navigate the complex process of separation and divorce.   Perhaps the collaborative model would be best for Brexit – legal advice to hand, yet ultimately, collaboration and clear communication (rather than game-playing) the order of the day?  And a lot more private too.   Several celebrity couples have gone through a collaborative divorce. Singer and performer Madonna and her former...

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Divorce Coaching and Better CoParenting

Divorce Coaching and Better CoParenting

My biggest inspiration has been my children. My children have been the most important thing in my life so far. To me children are a gift, and with that gift comes a responsibility from the person who receives them, to make sure that children are given the best opportunities in life, so that they grow into well-adjusted, functioning adults. My inspiration for working with couples as a relationship coach is that I know how traumatic divorce and separation can be. i just want to help other...

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What often get’s missed out with a quickie divorce

What often get’s missed out with a quickie divorce

  A recent question came up in our Secret Facebook Group about what is the best online divorce provider. It’s a good question to ask, because the feedback I have had from many people who have used them, is that the quality of the service can vary enormously. But I notice the real problem they have, is that their expectations about what a divorce actually involves, are often way out of kilter. The person asking the question in this case seemed very much in control of the process and was...

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Theta Healing Radio Interview with Debbie Talalay

Theta Healing Radio Interview with Debbie Talalay

  In this Brooklands Radio Surrey interview with Theta Healer Debbie Talalay, Debbie explains how Theta Healing is a quick and powerful way to heal the mind of subconscious blocks – and also physical problems.     She relates an incredible story about a Theta Healing client who reported that her Psoriasis disappeared overnight, and how she has helped people with Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome.     “Debbie Talalay – wow, if you haven’t been to see...

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Collaborative Divorce Lawyer James Belderbos

Collaborative Divorce Lawyer James Belderbos

  Whether the issues relate to finances or children, you need to be in charge of making the decisions…. rather than a stranger in a courtroom. James Belderbos is passionate about believing in modern day families – in whatever form they take. Throughout his career, he has often been recommended by counsellors – perhaps a reflection of his caring, sympathetic approach that goes hand in hand with his desire to achieve the best outcome for you.     “Having met James...

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Is divorce mediation really an option for me?

Is divorce mediation really an option for me?

Even some mediators sometimes say to me “Mediation is great, but it’s not for everyone”. And that really annoys me, because (as I explain to those mediators – and others of the same opinion) that I believe they are incorrect. Mediation IS right for everyone. It’s just that not everyone is able to successfully access it – which is very different from saying mediation is flawed, because what it means is that we all need to do more to help couples to access mediation as much as we...

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What is the easiest way to save money when divorcing?

What is the easiest way to save money when divorcing?

The easiest way to save money when dealing with family separation, is to not waste money on advice you don’t need. For example, if you are intending to agree the terms of the divorce in a civilised manner, then spending a whole lot of money on lawyers sending letters backwards and forwards, when you could simply talk to each other through a mediator, doesn’t make much sense. Sometimes people go to court and spend £25,000 only to be told the same thing that a mediator could tell them right at...

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How do I save money when divorcing?

How do I save money when divorcing?

To keep down the cost of divorce, simply avoid going to court.  Talk to each other – via a mediator if necessary – and take control of your own divorce.  The cost of legal fees, family court fees and having to leave work to attend court and many other associated costs will make a combative divorce just plain silly.  Why not keep the money for the kids? People make the mistake of thinking they can do a DIY divorce even when they are unable to sit down with their Ex and have a civil...

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Even Swans Get Divorced

Even Swans Get Divorced

Petra isn’t known for her philandering. A number of male swans attempted to make her acquaintance in the two years preceding December 2007 – but Petra rejected them all, for she was in love with a plastic swan-shaped pedal boat. The romantic escapades of the black swan hit headlines around the world when she began following a white pedal boat around on the lake where she lived. When winter arrived, she refused to be separated from the boat when workers removed it from the lake for the winter....

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Divorce and Family Mediation RH Postal Area

Divorce and Family Mediation RH Postal Area

Want to know how to find a good Divorce Mediator in the RH postal area?   One of the best ways to have a ‘quick divorce‘ and to save money if you live in East Sussex, West Sussex, or Surrey,  is to use family mediation.   I’m Suzy Miller, the UK’s Alternative Divorce Guide, and I will find you family mediators to provide a quote for the cost of divorcing in the TN postal area – AND share with you my free ‘How To Save £65,000 On Your Divorce And...

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